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“...We’re walking around
with a complete health care system inside our own body.” Keesling does a pretty
good job of emphasizing the this idea throughout the entire article. I must
admit that from personal experience I do indeed agree with Keesling in that sex
is great for the mind and body, as well as the fact that it could even be used
as therapy for menstrual problems. She also makes a point of stating that
“...sex also creates an emotional and physical bond that is essential...”. I
agree, because it is also my experience and belief that although sex is not the
entire relationship, it surely makes up about 80% of it, and if there is an
inability to be open about one’s sexual life with thier partner, then one will
never be able to attain a health tight bond with their other half.
In this
article, Keesling also states that orgasms differ between both individuals of
the same sex or of opposing genders. For instance, she believes that once each
individual has gained a ful and thorough understanding of their own particular
“physical and psychological intensity” they will each be able to reach untamable
levels of excitement that they would have never before thought possible. or
example, “when males reach orgasm they quickly ejaculate, ” when females reach
orgasm some realize it and some just do not. Studies have shown that women could
experience up to three different types of orgasm at a time but they each involve
the stimulation of the clitoris which intern make the PC muscles spas out
(concluded by Masters and Johnson).
Keesling, if very prompt to establish
that the female orgasm is controversial, but needless to say, so is that of the
male orgasm. She also goes on to say, that after extensive studies in sex
laboratories, it was also discovered that like males, females also ejaculate but
it is often too little to be acknowledged. This idea was initially published in
The G Spot by Alice Ladas, Hohn Perry and Beverly Whipple. The male orgasm, for
years, has been some what of a discrepancy because for a long time, Keesling
says that the average man was believed to be incapable of obtaining multiple
orgasms. Believe it or not, these ideas are past on through generations and the
mind is so powerful, that even if they are capable, if men believe they cannot
then, they will not. From her own studies and experiences as a surrogate partner
Keesling, has experienced that an unexpected “side effect” of learning how to
control ejaculation is spontaneous multiple orgasms.
Ultimately, I must say
that as Keesling states throughout her entire article that sex is an enhancement
tool rather than a problem, then we should definitely stop worrying about
whether or not we are normal or abnormal, and instead concentrate on how to
better our sexual lives so that we could better ourselves as individuals. After
all, we are walking around with an entire healthcare system inside, Why not take
advantage of it and use it?