John Bosco was born on August 16, 1815, to a poor farming family in
Becchi, a small suburb of Turin, Italy. The child grew to be the “Beloved
Apostle of Youth”. One of John Bosco’s earliest recollections occurred
at age two. He remembers his mother telling him upon his father’s death ,
“You have no father now”. Although he stated that he could not remember
what his father was like , his death must have had a profound effect on
him and perhaps sparked his desire to help troubled boys, many of whom were
fatherless. I cannot say that I have suffered the loss of a close family
member and can only imagine the effect it could have on my life.
From
the time he was a young child, John Bosco seemed to have a clear
understanding of God’s ways; and what he didn’t understand was often made
clear to him by his mother “Mama Margaret”. She seemed to know, even at
an early age, that her son was destined to do good in the name of God. She
taught him by example from an early age and continued to support him and all
his good works throughout his life. She eventually joined him at he
Oratory and became “Mother” to hundreds of boys. Her positive influence was
felt by all of those boys. It was almost as if the Blessed Mother worked
through her good example and words of wisdom. Mama Margaret warned her
son to “beware of bad boys you may meet on your journey through life”. and
asked him one day, “Why do you go with such bad boys?” How many mothers
have echoed similar words? How confident John Bosco was in the power of his
good example when he replied, “If I am with them they are better and do
not say bad words”. Wouldn’t this world be a better place if we all had such
confidence and faith in the power our own good example.
As a young
child, John Bosco had the ability to attract young boys. He went out of his
way to study “traveling show” folk to learn acrobatic and sleight of
hand tricks to entertain the boys who would gather around him. After a
performance he would discuss a sermon from a recent Mass or lead the group
in a hymn. If people started to leave he would tell them that they
couldn’t come back and see more tricks unless they stayed for the sermon. Of
course they remained.
At age nine John had a dream that clearly
indicated his intentions of becoming a priest. Mama Margaret understood
this dream and set out to educate her son and prepare him for First Holy
Communion. John had a special ability to understand and memorize the
priests’ sermons. He happened to impress one priest with his retelling
of the sermon. This priest arranged for the beginning of John’s education
for the priesthood. His older stepbrother, Anthony, was jealous of him
and often begrudged him his studies by insisting that he help work on the
farm. Even Anthony could not keep him from his studies. Priests arranged
for him to be taught while he worked at the farm. In life we may
encounter people who may be jealous of us and try to stop us from
succeeding.
Throughout the course of his religious education John came
in contact with many different people and different work experiences that
helped prepare him for his future work. Living away from home for the first
time ,he explained the way that he best learned to deal with his new
“companions”. He divided them into three classes; the good, the indifferent,
and the bad. He avoided the bad as soon as their character was
discovered; he was courteous to the indifferent and dealt with them only
when necessary. He was determined to make friends with the good. This is
probably the best advice that John Bosco has to offer young boys.
Although he said that he avoided the “bad”, I have a feeling that he did not
give up on them too easily.
John Bosco continued to have a knack for
being able to enter the boys’ world throughout his life. After being
ordained a priest he continued his “boy work”. Little by little over the
years his Oratories multiplied in various towns, cities, and countries.
Many of the boys he taught and sheltered followed in his footsteps and
continued his good works. John Bosco worked tirelessly for the salvation of
all of his boys. He felt that losing one of his boys would be like
losing a limb, and his heart remains with any who stray from him. Only when
there was danger of harm coming to the other boys would he agree to expel
anyone.
John Bosco had tremendous faith. He would often plan for the
building of a new Oratory without securing sufficient funding. It seemed
that his prayers were always answered because the money would always
somehow become available to him at .the very moment it was needed. His faith
in the generosity of others never failed him.
It is almost impossible to
imagine business being carried out in that manner today, yet it is also
impossible to imagine the religious community existing without that
extreme faith in the generosity and goodness of others.
John Bosco
experienced a difficult, dangerous time during the period of
anticlericalism, around 1849. He survived numerous assassination attempts
from various undesirable people who opposed the good he was doing with
the boys. These dangerous times did not prevent brave John Bosco from
performing his priestly duties. He seemed to have a guardian angel in both
his mother, who always seemed to know when he was in danger, and a
mysterious dog named “Grigio”, who always seemed to appear when he was
needed. Wouldn’t it be great if each of us had our very own Grigio to
protect us! It may be that He already does exist, but we haven’t taken
notice yet. I have to admit that mothers seem to have this ability to sense
when we are about to get into trouble whether we know it or not.
Needless to say, John Bosco worked tirelessly for his boys. A doctor had
commented that his body seemed like that of a much older man. Perhaps that
was because John Bosco never refused a request from anyone in need. He
gave generously of his time, his energy, and his wisdom. He died on January
31, 1888 and was canonized in 1934.
While reading this book I could not
help but recognize the similarities between John Bosco’s Oratories and
our school. There is clearly a feeling of brotherhood among the students
at Don Bosco Prep. I remember how we all laughed during orientation when we
were told about this feeling of brotherhood, but all of us now agree
that it exists. We are led by the good example of our teachers and priests,
are made to follow a code of discipline, and are provided academic and
religious instruction. It is an atmosphere that guides us in choosing
between right and wrong and hopefully gives us confidence and faith in the
power of our own good example. The work of Saint John Bosco continues!
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