Conformity:
The
Greek Society
Conformity, on a daily basis we
conform to the social norms set forth before us by our friends, family and past
experiences. Group cohesiveness (the desire to which one has to be in and is
attracted to the group) greatly increases conformity. Enter Greek life.
We
have all seen them, parading down the halls, across campus, and in the Student
Union. Strutting around with their number one symbols of pride across their
backs or chests, on a sleeve, a pin or hat, GREEKS. Going Greek is a social
decision as one enters college. You either are or are not a Greek, which creates
a rather noticeable Ingroup\\Outgroup situation, and millions of stereotypes
between both Greeks and Independents.
To some Independents, Greeks are seen
as followers, conformists, who joined simply to ?buy their friends? and some
Greeks see Independents as ?GDIs (God Damned Independents, for lack of better
definition), people who are losers because they won?t join, for whatever reason.
It has been said that ?From the outside looking in you will never understand it,
and from the inside looking out you can not explain it.?
Greeks more
predominately create the sense of Ingroup\\Outgroup. It is very simple to see
who is part of the group and who is not. It is pretty obvious from the blaring
letters, ringing chants, songs, and stories that you are part of the group. From
the Greek point of view there are 3 types of groups, Fraternity Men&
Sorority Women, Pledges, and everyone else. You are either in or out it is that,
plain and simple. You have either chose to conform to the ideals of your
perspective organization or you have chosen not to be a part.
There are sub
divisions of the In-group, as far as the different organizations; you are a Sig-Kap, TKE, Skull, AST, etc. This is turn creates In-groups amongst the
In-group. Each individual organization sees themselves as ?good? and in turn
everyone else is ?bad.? Which is a predominate theme in Ingroup\\Outgroup
Theory.
Greeks call this ?pride?, conforming to these beliefs is part of the
whole Greek concept. Through the pledging process you are taught the ways of the
organization, how members are expected to act, and many other fun and
interesting tidbits of information. During your pledge period you learn the
ideals that are the base of the organization and until you learn to conform to
these ideas you are not considered a full member. The conformity within the
organization creates a similarity, a bond between the members.
It is funny,
but sometimes as a Greek myself, I can hear myself, stereotyping people on the
way they act, dress, look, etc., as to what Organization?s ideals I could see
them most easily conforming to. Then as the ?good Greek? that I am I introduce
these people to prospective Organizations where I think they would fit in, not
really giving them a second thought as to where they think they should go. This
is how some are influenced to ?conform? and join an organization.
Independents see Greeks as the ultimate conformers, people who all share one
brain, a mob mentality of party-ers, and Frat boys, ?sorostitutes? and
procrastinators. ?Just another brick in the wall? as Pink Floyd would say it.
Most independents do not have a high opinion of Greeks, based on stories,
rumors, movies, and the ?Animal House? images. Their particular view of the
so-called ?In-group? it not usually one that they long to be apart of. They do
not see Greeks as the ?Ingroup? they view their own particular ?cliques? as the
?Ingroup? they want to be a part of. Independents chose not to conform to the
standards set forth by ?founders? they have never met and never will meet. As
Greeks, on the other hand, we must smile on these non-conformists, for at one
time, our ?founders? were the non- conformists, who chose to go another way,
with another idea and create our organization. The independents we know today
may be the founders of an organization we may know tomorrow.
Some
Independents are not Greek for reasons. Some include, ?why should I buy my
friends,? ?I don?t have the money,? ?I don?t drink? etc. Some are just not Greek
because they chose to be. Contrary to most Greeks opinions sometimes people are
not Greek just because they chose to be, no deep down reason. Independents are
divided into many other sub-groups, based on interests, where they live, what
they like to do, etc. All ways that can basically be joined if you chose to
conform to the expectations of the particular Ingroup.
There was, not too
long ago, a time when I would not conform to anything or anyone, a time when
even I thought being Greek was not a great idea for ANYONE let alone my own
individual self. Now I am one of those people wearing letters, joining
committees, recruiting members, all to better that which my dad calls ?the white
pouffy coat mafia.? I spent my first year at college as an Independent, being
part of the different groups within that ?Ingroup,? conforming to all sorts of
norms, ideals, searching for the concept of myself and growing and choosing my
values and ideas.
Now after two years of being a sister I can honestly say,
that maybe, just maybe ?conforming? to the ideals of this ?Ingroup? wasn?t such
a terrible idea after all. Looking back it?s been some of the most rewarding and
fun times of my whole life, and created a different side of myself that was not
present in the Independent setting. Although I personally I usually do not
distinguish between Greek and not, sometimes I slip and catch myself wondering
when that guy is going to pledge TKE or when that girl is going to rush ASA.
Going Greek is part of conforming to a life, one definitely not for everyone,
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